Tuesday, July 9, 2013

TO GO TO BED ANGRY OR NOT.

So today's post is sorta out of the norm for me. If I talk about my relationships at all, its usually for the better. I try not to get too heavy here in the bloggy world.

In full disclosure: G and I had a fight  about something stupid and we ended up sleeping in separate rooms last night. We are all fine now but this brings me to my quandary. 


I've always heard to never go to bed angry with your partner. They say those feelings fester over night and become something maybe more in your subconscious even if you've consciously forgiven them the next day. Going to sleep upset or disturbed preserves the emotion, research suggests.

I've also heard that going to bed angry isn't that bad for your relationship because instead of staying up to the wee hours of the night saying stupid things that should never be said, you wait until morning and with a clear head can talk it out more reasonably. 

My questions to all of you taken ladies out there: 

one. What is the best relationship advice someone had ever given you?
two. To go to bed angry or not?

                      
                           

18 comments:

  1. July 9, 2013 at 9:24 PM

    I actually prefer to go to bed and talk it out the next morning with cooler heads. sometimes I just need some time alone when i'm upset instead of arguing for hours and then I lose a ton of sleep haha.
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